I actually find this slightly disturbing... a little too close for comfort!

[mk_tortie]

Your Existing Situation

Volatile and outgoing. Needs to feel that events are developing along desired lines, otherwise irritation can lead to changeability or superficial activities.



Your Stress Sources

The existing situation is disagreeable. Has an unsatisfied need to ally herself with others whose standards are as high as her own, and to stand out from the rank and file. Her control of her sensual instincts restricts her ability to give herself, but the resulting isolation leads to the urge to surrender and allow herself to merge with another. This disturbs her. as such instincts are regarded as weaknesses to be overcome; she feels that only by continued self-restraint can she hope to maintain her attitude of individual superiority. Wants to be loved or admired for herself alone; needs attention, recognition, and the esteem of others.



Your Restrained Characteristics

Egocentric and therefore quick to take offense, leaving her rather isolated in her attachments.

Circumstances are such that she feels forced to compromise for the time being if she is to avoid being cut off from affection or from full participation.




Your Desired Objective

Seeks success. Wants to overcome obstacles and opposition and to make her own decisions. Pursues her objectives single-mindedly and with initiative. Does not want to feel dependent on the good will of others.



Your Actual Problem

Needs to be valued and respected as an exceptional individual, in order to increase her self-esteem and her feeling of personal worth. Resists mediocrity and sets herself high standards.



Your Actual Problem #2

Afraid that she may be prevented from achieving the things she wants and therefore demands that others should recognize her right to them.